Of course beautiful, sexy shoes aren’t nearly as comfortable as old slippers. But as Christian Louboutin told Vogue magazine, “This little act of discomfort pays off in lots of other ways.”
“There is an element of seduction in shoes that doesn’t exist for men,” the French luxury bag and shoe designer explained. “A woman can be sexy, charming, witty or shy with her shoes. That’s why women are happy to wear painful shoes.”
If you’d rather have the beauty without the pain, though, some of these tips might help:
1. Check the fit.
According to Hillary Brenner of the American Podiatric Medical Association, nine out of ten women are wearing shoes the wrong size. Since it’s easy to tell when a shoe is too large, more often the problem is a shoe that’s too narrow or too short.
For the best results, stretching should be done by a professional shoe repair shop. Still, when all you need is a quick fix, you might try:
- Stuffing them with damp newspaper until it dries
- Wearing them with thick socks and walk around, working your feet
- Inserting an oversize peeled potato overnight, then wiping off any residue
- Putting a watertight bag inside, filling it with water and freezing overnight — don’t remove the bag until it thaws
2. Pick up some gear.
A quick trip to the drugstore can result in much more comfortable shoes.
If there’s extra space in the toes, fill them with lambs wool. Used by dancers for decades, it’s comfortable and effective.
To reduce friction areas, take your choice of:
- Moleskin (cut a piece slightly larger than a blister would be)
- Friction Block (or as a fallback, try any roll-on lubricant)
Those solutions apply to individual pairs of shoes, but changing styles is equally important.
3. Alternate heels and flats.
If you wear only one kind of shoe, switching to the other for a special event — like a day at the beach or a gala dinner — can be hard on your body.
Wearing only ballet flats and flip-flops means losing arch support, which can lead to problems with your feet, knees and back. Wearing high heels regularly results in shorter calf muscles and stiffer Achilles tendons, which can lead to imbalance as well as pain in your toes and ankles.
Either way, give your feet and legs a break by changing your heel height frequently.
4. If you can’t switch?
Some people can’t bear to switch from high heels to low, and some would rather skip an event than abandon their flip-flops. Fortunately, there’s a solution for both types.
When you’re committed to flat soles:
- Use arch-support inserts
- Add gel insoles or heel pads
- Ask your doctor about orthotic inserts
When you’re committed to high heels:
- Stretch your calf muscles by sitting on the floor with both legs straight and flex one foot toward your ankle, then away. Switch feet and repeat.
- Stand facing the wall, right foot behind left. Lean against the wall, straighten your right leg, then bend it. Switch legs and repeat.
- Still facing the wall, act like you’re slowly sitting down until you feel your lower calf stretching.
Those stretches help keep your calf muscles from shortening to the point where going barefoot actually hurts.
5. Get a massage.
No matter how carefully you stretch your muscles at home, there’s nothing like a professional massage to relieve the pain of gorgeous-but-uncomfortable shoes.
Be sure to tell your therapist about any issues in your feet, ankles, legs or lower back, because a Swedish massage or various other massages can make a big difference. Not only that, you’ll leave feeling relaxed…and ready for the next event featuring your favorite shoes.
After all, even when they hurt, the right shoes can make a powerful statement. As Christian Louboutin observed, “Think about Marlene Dietrich crossing her legs — the whole attitude. The language starts with the shoe and radiates over the whole body.”
And keeping your body pain-free, no matter what kind of shoes you like best, will be easier with these five techniques.
Laurie Schnebly writes for the Tempe Massage Envy Spa, a national leader in professional, affordable, customized and convenient massage. With a master’s in counseling and 11 years as a therapist, she focuses on issues that affect daily life for people who want to improve their health.